It sounds like he wants to play "Happy Family" which is FINE with me as long as it doesn't affect my life.  He wants the Spawn to go live with him full time.

All I want is the goddamn FUCKING papers before the chippy has his latest baby.  I don't think that's too much to ask, but he wants to try to take the Spawn from me using underhanded techniques of coercing the kid?

Oh screw that.

People can walk all over me and I will let them, for some period of time, but there always comes a breaking point, and I am rapidly approaching that.  TWO people now have told me that I can totally take him for everything he's worth (which right now is nothing) and, you know, it's starting to appeal to me.

I can take the Spawn.  I can probably have his wages garnished, but beyond ALL of those things...  I can get my own lawyer, take matters into my own hands and totally, completely and utterly emasculate him.  I may actually take that road.

I have a decent job, make decent money, have an apartment that is *more than* big enough for me and the Spawn.  He has no money, a million jobs, a tiny-ASS apartment that is nowhere near big enough for him, Spawn, the Chippy and a baby...  Who do you think has the advantage here?

It's not something I want to do.  All I want is for the papers to be signed, to get my name back and to continue on with my life as it is and to enact some of the plans I have on hold.  I do not want to go to court, I do not want to put my son in the middle of all of this, but SEVEN FUCKING YEARS is a long-ass time, and our TWELVETH anniversary is rapidly approaching.

I don't want to do it, but I'm thinking about it.

And I know, above all else, that if I did it...  I would win.

~FG };^>