The girls are tired of hearing those words now.  Of this I am sure, considering they are repeatedly subjected to this phrase coming out of my mouth.

The problem is that it is SO TRUE.  I crush him deeply and increasingly.  It's getting bad.  I work very hard to not build things up in my mind (this time), but the reality is that he's so close to my ideal (at least from what I've seen so far) that it literally frightens me.

I swear to you, he is the yin to my yang.  An ego at least as big as mine, but with that laid-back "Yes, I am just that good (and I have the facts to back it up)" kind of feel to it.  It's a rarity with arrogance and egotism, in my experience, more so with guys.  Not afraid to call bullshit when I'm bullshitting and, as far as I can tell, not afraid to hear it either.

I guess the word is simpatico and believe me, it is quite appealing.  He danced with me.  Not a "shall we dance" kind of thing, but just grabbing me and dancing me around the room.  This is exactly the sort of thing I firmly believe there should be more of.  A complete gentleman with no pretensions about it, holding doors (as appropriate), offering his coat, walking me home, but sadly (*sigh*) never crossing the line.

Much to my dismay.